We were made for relationships by a relational God.  Relationships are meant to be enjoyed within God's wonderful design.  The first relationship that we are meant to enjoy is a "Right" relationship with the living God through Jesus Christ.  When we find ourselves in a right relationship with Jesus Christ he can help us be wise with all of the relationships in our lives.  Too many Christians treat relationships casually and suffer for it.  We must not follow the world's advice in this crucial area, it is just too important get wrong.